I really need to work on thinking nicer, you know what I mean? I have a tendency to judge ladies that I walk past, and then I do the same when I look in a mirror. Come on now, that needs to stop. It's EXHAUSTING! So I'm going to actively try to stop doing that, starting last Friday (sorry boos, forgot to mention it). It's going to be a relief, I think. As women, we are constantly overanalyzing the crap out of everything, especially our looks, holding up an impossibly high standard of what we think beauty is. I've always done that, which is probably why my body image of myself is still such an issue. So I'm going to give myself and others a break. I'm going to compliment others when they truly look beautiful, not hate them for it. I'm going to love my skin, even when it doesn't look as smooth and tan as I want it to look. This might sound really superficial because, well, it is. This isn't an important issue, it's just another annoying thing that we have to deal with in everyday life (even if you don't want to openly admit it). So lets stop wasting time and energy on something this insignificant so we can focus on the bigger picture...
But really, anything is better than negativity, and we have to work everyday to fight it. Deal with it people. (Was that mean? Just kidding).
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